The term “Lady” seems to be getting a bad reputation; a woman has the right to embrace her sexuality without feeling disrespected.
Time for a Change
As a woman matures and connects to her sexuality there’s often a period of confusion that can often lead you to compromising places in your life.
Having control of your sexuality means you are aware at all times of the message you’re sending to others around you. Your smile, your walk the way you talk and even the tone of your voice sends a message.
Being considered a “Lady” does not diminish your sexual power.
Fresh Touch
Your looks (hair, clothes, and body type) are not the only measure of your sexuality but defined by your confidence in which you are and embracing your God given birthright to be a sexual being.
Some women oppress their gifts as a sexual being for various reasons; it could be due to any number of things; a well-intended but thoughtless comment by a parent/relative, an unwanted comment by a stranger, glances from jealous women or religious beliefs.
Despite the reason that sexual energy is repressed, it’s never too late to reconnect to it and embrace the right to be treated like a “Lady”.
Ladies, you should NEVER feel guilty about how YOU feel about YOUR identity as a sexual being, it’s part of your DNA and don’t apologize as long as you’re not being illegal, cheap, or behaving reckless in your sexual behavior.
Being confident in who you are as a sexual being is liberating.
Time for a Change
The fastest way to reconnect to the sexual-goddess inside is with your brain. According to the Kinsey Report (Sexual Behavior in the Human Male), 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day. Yes, your brain is another sex organ that rarely is used by women, so take your pleasure into your own hands and use your brain to formulate the desired outcome of how you feel about the sexual-goddess in you. Stroke the fires of your sexual appetite with your brain.
Learning to love yourself
Go to the bookstore and get a few books about sexual awareness.
Stimulate your brain with books, pictures, artwork, and statues.
The next time you look into a mirror announce who you are as a sexual goddess and radiate that message to your soul and repeat it until it’s embedded into your psychic.
Vanessa Williams, Christy Alley and Janet Jackson are confident women who are connected to their sexuality no matter her size, age, or body type.
Self pleasure is self awareness:
Romantic to do:
- Take a luxurious bubble bath (add whole milk to the body wash of your choice to exfoliate, get calcium bonus, and make your skin as soft as a babies bottom).
- Talk to your significant other and lovingly tell him what you want and what you like and I’m sure he’ll be happy to indulge because it assures him that he’s pleasing you (stud points).
- Purchase/rent or watch belly dancing classes on TV (I stated with the classes on TV so I could work at my own pace and it’s not easy learning to make a figure 8 with your hips but you CAN do it) or find a local belly dancing class.
Graduate to goddess
Once you’ve connected to your sexual-goddess allow her to thrive by welcoming her, spoiling her, and treating her like a "Lady".
Must haves for the sexual-goddess: New undies since your goddess has thrown-out ALL the grannie panties, lace panties are necessary for any goddesses wardrobe, you can never get it wrong with lace lingerie…all lace everything. Next-- sexy heels, if you’re still struggling to let the goddess out, take a girlfriend, or even your man (trust…men know sexy shoes and he’ll hook you up in the shoe department). Remember practice makes perfect.
Certified-Goddess
CONGRATULATIONS!
By Lukeither Willingham
The rise of a Sexual-Goddess
