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- FORPLAI BY LAMMAN RUCKER NATURAL BATH AND BODY CARE LINE LAUNCHES WITH NEW WEBSITE
- Let me be the one you believe in!
- Cindy “Rodeo” Steedle
- SALT & PEPA THE FEMALE PIONEERS OF HIP HIP
- Enjoying My Life!
- CHRIS 'LUDACRIS' BRIDGES TO WRITE INTRODUCTION TO 13TH EDITION OF WHO'S WHO IN BLACK ATLANTA®
- Roger Louis Kennedy
- The Missing Ingredient
- Cindy Tawiah, was born and raised in Ghana, West Africa
- Up Close with the “Fly Jock”
- The Real Who’s Who
- Mike Minter on the Sideline
- Mo’Nique!
- Darrin Dewitt Henson
- Kelli Out Loud!
- Carmalitha Gumbs
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Enjoying My Life!

By Carol Courtney Anglin
I’m here and I’m Fabulous!
Miki Howard was born in Chicago as Alicia Michelle Howard. She is also known to some as one of the greatest singers that ever lived. In the 1980’s, she had a series of hit records. Her first number one hit came in 1989 “Ain’t nuthin’ in the World and “Ain’t Nobody Like You”, followed by three top 10 hits “Come Share My Love”, “Imagination” and “Love Under New Management”, which was created during her brief love affair with Gerald Levert. Although they did not stay together as a couple, they remained friends forever. “I loved Gerald very much I stayed very close to him and his brother Sean. I think in the end I was closer to Sean than Gerald. We were all like brothers and sisters after a while. I miss them both dearly.”
Miki proved she was no ordinary R&B singer when she landed the role of Billie Holiday in the Malcolm X film written by Spike Lee. She followed with a featured role in Poetic Justice with Janet Jackson and produced by John Singleton.
The very bubbly Miki had nothing but positive things to say. She talked about her childhood memories of growing up around music. Her mother sang with the gospel group the Caravans and her father a singer with the Pilgrim Jubilees. “It was nothing for me to come home and see Billy Preston, Aretha Franklin or James Cleveland at my house. I grew up in a house dominated by music. Most people add music to their life, but in my world, I only knew how to add life to music.”
She explained why she left the industry, “It was a combination of a bad marriage, management and me not willing to compromise and play the bureaucracy game”, which eventually influenced her decision to go home and raise her children. She put her priorities in order stating, “show business will always be there.”
She was right. By 2001, Miki made a comeback and released her first album in four years entitled “Three Wishes,” which landed her a Grammy Nomination. “Every Grammy Nominee wants that Grammy, but whether I ever get one or not I am still happy with what I have accomplished.”
Today Miki is still touring. “I am always doing concerts somewhere whether it’s Jazz with Roy Ayers or R&B with Bobby Brown and Bell Biv Devoe. I have a great life! I don’t see what I do as show business anymore. I am an established artist; it’s more of an art form for me. I am just doing what I love to do,” But when she comes home, she loves to be surrounded by family. “I enjoy my three natural children, my lovely granddaughter, and my many surrogate children,” she laughs. “People have misconceptions concerning artists who are not on the media’s radar. They think that if you’re not in the public’s eye, then you must not be doing anything. That’s not true. I’m not super busy, but that’s a good thing.” She continues, “There is a place for artists, like me, that have fans that just love their music. There’s a whole world out there that is not media driven.”
What would you say to encourage others to follow their dreams to fruition?
“I would have to say love what you’re doing. If you believe that it’s great somebody else will too.”
Miki, It was a pleasure meeting you!
Miki keeps her music alive by making it available to the masses online. Her official website is www.mikihowardmedia.com. You can also purchase Ms. Howard’s music at cdbaby.com/cd/mikihoward.
Cindy “Rodeo” Steedle

By Carol Courtney Anglin
Story of Faith, Hope and Charity!
Cindy “Rodeo” Steedle is best known for her starring roles in VH1’s, Rock of Love with Bret Michaels, I love Money, and Charm School with Sharon Osborne where she charmed her viewers with her winning personality, charisma, and hearty laugh. Others may know Cindy the Personal Trainer, Fitness Model and International Spokeswomen for fitness companies; however, when looking deeper one would also find Cindy, the activist; a person who uses her notoriety to bring change to peoples’ lives and knowledge to causes very close to her heart.
When I interviewed Cindy, she was excited about her new venture. “I have a business relationship with Nutrition House Lifestyle Store and would like everyone to look out for Rodeo’s Cross Fit Circuit Training Studio, that’s currently in discussion to open in 2011. “The in-house store will carry Rodeo’s Signature Series Nutrition Spa Products, as well as my Fitness attire. I am really excited about these projects.”
With Cindy’s strong, confident attitude and body, one would believe her life was always filled with excellent health and happiness; so when she began to tell me of the tragic life she lived originating from a broken home, I was curious to find out more. “I had a sad, lonely childhood. My parents divorced when I was six years old and I witnessed a lot as a child growing up”. She managed to stay positive and rise above her situation only to face death on numerous occasions.
“While training with the Jr. Olympics I dove off a platform and landed wrong, causing me to be confined to a wheelchair while my feet were reconstructed. I had zero feeling in my feet. I had to learn how to walk again”. A few years later she was diagnosed with cancer. “I thought I was dying and now facing this, I wondered whether I was being punished in some way. I had experienced a loss of a child, and was trying to hold on to a marriage that sadly ended. I became so depressed.” One day as Cindy looked in the mirror, gazing at a reflection that was 75 pounds overweight, she realized it was time she made a change.
Cindy struggled through many years as she got back on her feet, but never gave up. “When one door closed another one seemed to just miraculously open. I had to keep going for my son. When I looked into his big blue eyes, I knew I did not have any other choice”. She landed in Hollywood and became known for being the classiest lady with her cowgirl hat. She appeared on multiple VH1 Series; from the VH1 Rock of Love Reality Shows with Bret Michaels and Rock of Love Reality Stars. She was also featured on VH1’s hit show and first release I Love Money, and then was chosen to work closely with Sharon Osbourne on VH1’s Sharon Osbourne’s, Charm School hit show. Rodeo, Sharon Osbourne and Bret Michaels still remain very close today. Rodeo was also featured on VH1’s Rock of Love Girl’s 2010, Where are they Now? She still appears in many magazine ads with her positive smile, but as an actress she still struggles.
“People think because you are on television, billboards and in magazines that you’re making a lot of money, but that is far from the truth. However, eventually all those free ads finally have paid off.” It was the magazine ads that got her on TV and began her journey to stardom straight to Hollywood from the Arnold Schwarzenegger IFBB PRO Classic 2007.
The whole time, while standing on the stage competing in the Arnold Classic for the first time ever Arnolds NPC Figure Competitor Competition and looking out at over 25,000 people Rodeo thought, even though she did not take the first place trophy in her class home “It’s okay, I’m going to Hollywood.” She said, “WOW! Arnold shook her hand and said Ms. Cindy, we all know you as RODEO and soon the world will too. ” Arnold stated “I personally know that you’re making a difference in lives around the world and “YOU ARE A PRO! Do not think anything different.” So Cindy walked off stage, and 51 Minds Entertainment along with VH1 Network flew her straight to Hollywood.
Today Cindy has her focus back and has surpassed where she left off back then. Cindy mentioned how she got to the Arnold Classic. She couldn’t have done it without the help of her personal trainer IFBB PRO BODY BUILDER Rashid “Rocc” Shabazz and his wife Gina Shabazz at Fitness Pro Wellness Center, LLC located in Roswell, GA. In 2005, she started out with her first personal trainers, Ronald “Roc” Jones and Chris Trice located in Georgia. They helped her take first place in Body Building competitions. It was then that Cindy chose to further her career and be a NPC Fitness Figure Competitor. Today Cindy has gone from a size 16 to a size 6. She’s now thinking about going back on stage to compete in the NPC while traveling nationally as a motivational speaker; better health through better nutrition and exercise. “As a certified personal trainer, I have in-depth knowledge on fitness and nutrition. I want people to know that they do not have to be picture thin to be healthy. If you eat a healthy with high protein and include a fast pace cardio walk on a daily basis, you can still have a lean body. It’s all about eating properly”.
Cindy says her heart is in the right place. She has learned from suffering not to take anything, not even being able to take an ordinary walk, for granted and she continues to help people whenever she can. She visits and gives back to the United States Troops on an ongoing basis. Cindy visited the Walter Reed Medical Center in 2007 and 2008 and she’ll be traveling soon with the USO handshake tours. She dedicated to holding fundraisers. The proceeds go to helping the Breast Cancer Foundation, as well as, working with other organizations like the, Save the Horses (savethehorses.org). Animals at, Save the Horses Foundation, are saved from being slaughtered. Cindy works with many Foundations. “I would like my son to carry on with my legacy of helping and caring for people and animals. I want to be his role model in that sense. I want him to carry on when I’m no longer here.”
What we can expect to see in the future? “I am working on my first ever calendar Rodeo – Fit Diva Over 40yr; for 2012 and 2013 the calendar will include the most gorgeous fit women; all over the age of 40. I want people to know that you can be fit at any age. I also have a TV series I host coming out on a major network called SICK SPEED TV, produced by Jeff Beal Hardline Productions, LLC and Elan Brooks with Sentry Studios. It’s a fun lifestyle entertainment show based on motor sports and luxury automobiles.” She spoke heart to heart about the ongoing production of “The Voice Within” her own signature television show, where people can be inspired by stories of hope, facing their personal fears, visions and dreams. She clearly wants people to get the message that success lies within reach through peace and happiness. This idea came to her back in November 2010 while sitting in church with her Entertainment Talent Manager who, she’s partnered up with at Hardline Productions, LLC. Together they are in the process of building her staff in order to bring her show to life. She’s said “My heartfelt gratitude goes out to all who has helped me grow into an inspirational role model. Not long ago I placed my heart in God’s hands; and I believe that people can have and hope for anything, no matter what things may look like at present, if they just keep moving and don’t look back”.
You can book Rodeo and get more information by going to www.CindyRodeo.comhttp://www.thevoiceshow.tv/index.html. Follow Cindy on Twitter at @CindyRodeo and Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/CindyRodeofans , www.DreamItMakeIt.com
SALT & PEPA THE FEMALE PIONEERS OF HIP HOP Featured
Written by AdministratorBy Carol Courtney Anglin
Trendsetter Champions come to mind when we think of the infamous dynamic-duo, first-class entertainers “SALT N PEPA.” Cheryl (Salt) James, a Brooklyn Native and Sandi (Pepa) Denton from Queens by way of Kingston Jamaica, are the world’s first female Hip Hop Legends. The year was 1986 before Rap became a genre and while the game was still all male, the group we know today as Salt N Pepa changed their name from Super Nature and signed with independent Next Plateau Records. They released their first song Hot, Cool and Vicious – produced by Randy Hurby ”the luv bug” Azor; crashing the glass ceiling in Hip Hop forever. Soon after in 1987 they would go on to release the hit single from their album “Push It” selling over a million copies.
Their ground breaking success topped the charts earning them their first Grammy nomination and launched the group to the international popularity that they have today.
Sitting in Cheryl’s lovely home, sipping tea, I asked did she ever dream of the group having this much success from the beginning? She told me how she and Sandi met in nursing school and how they always had a love for music. How they were “on their grind hard,” even in those days going to school and working for Sears as telephone representatives, they were always looking for the next big thing. “So I guess you could say, yes, because we always knew we were going to make it big”.
Oddly enough and as fate would have it while at Sears, the girls worked alongside the then, also unknown, Kid N Play and Martin Lawrence. They made a promise to each other that whoever would make it first would help the others, and they did! Pep stated, “We all became the best of friends and when we started touring Martin Lawrence would open up for us by warming up the crowd. Look at him today.” As laughter filled the room she went on to explain her relationship with the founder of the group. “I will always have that soft spot for Azor, because although we experienced tight times between us it’s because of him we were able to attain a lifestyle that otherwise we may have never known.” Azor was, at that time, a student of the center for the media arts and also Cheryl’s boyfriend. Azor asked Cheryl if she and her friend Sandi were willing to collaborate using their vocals on a class project to produce a record. They said yes! Cheryl said, “We agreed because I always wanted stardom and Sandi was always ready for it.” They gladly accepted the offer and the project was a success for Azor in class landing him an “A” and in the streets leading to radio play. A string of new tunes were written to keep up with the demand. The girls hired a new personal DJ, Dee Dee (Spinderella) Roper, and left for a tour that would change all their lives forever.
We started to talk about the reality show. “Well Cheryl was the initiator of that,” stated Sandi. Referring to the Reality Show “Let’s Talk About Pep,” which was on VH-1. The show followed Sandi’s adventures in New York City with four girlfriends: Cheryl (Salt) James; journalist, Jacque Reid; Joumana Kidd, the former model and ex-wife of basketball star Jason Kidd; and radio personality Kali Troy, aka Kittie. Sandi, no novice when it came to reality shows, was a perfect person to lead the show. She said, “I was already doing reality shows,” referring to her roles on Surreal Life in 2005 and The Surreal Life: Fame Games in 2007. Pep continues to stay current keeping in touch with old school artists as well as new artists on the scene. She published her autobiography in 2008 also titled, “Let’s Talk About Pep,” which gave the reader insight on Sandi Denton and some of the fire that she was to overcome. Some literally, as she shares the story in her book of how her lover who she refers to as “Brad” abused her. During that abusive period in their relationship Brad attempted to burn Sandi’s face with an iron but while struggling with her missed and burned the skin off her arm. While turning to run, he scratched her cornea causing her to wear an eye patch. Sandi feeling that she was making all the wrong decisions concerning finding a mate, lead her to celibacy. The book’s intro is written by Queen Latifah with an epilogue by Missy Elliott, two of her very dear friends.
So the idea of a reality show as sort of a jump off and continuation of the book was a great idea. They would base it in New York and show reality dating in today’s society. Cheryl thought the show would also let their fans know what happened to Salt N Pepa since the group left abruptly with neither of them ever speaking publicly about it. Sandi stated, “It was a way for me to finally know what happened too,” as she laughed.
The group’s last concert was in 1999 and they were on a high when Cheryl ended the partnership, to Sandi’s surprise. Cheryl says, “I would have done it differently in hind sight.” However, she doesn’t regret putting it aside because she really believes that the hiatus saved her life. She talked about her days of being bulimic and the long nights that turned into months of depression. “On the outside it looks glamorous, but it’s not all what it’s cracked up to be sometime.” She reflected on other celebrities like Britney Spears and even Michael Jackson. “You go from feeling loved and having fun to just feeling like a commodity.” She didn’t know what to do but knew she needed healing. One night while she was in a series of bingeing and purging, she had what she called a “spiritual awakening.” This awakening was the “healing” that she longed for and what she gives credit to today for saving her life. Soon after, she joined a church in Brooklyn, New York called Christian Cultural Center (CCC) where A.R. Bernard is the pastor. At CCC she was taught how to regain her strength and renew her self-esteem. When she was strong enough, she reached out to Pep and tried to repair their relationship but Pep was non-responsive. Understanding, Cheryl was persistent and got the message to her about the reality show. She explained to Pep she wanted to do a reality show with the hopes of developing and building their relationship again. Sandi begin to listen and the show was born. Although the show is no longer on the air, Sandi and Cheryl agree that the show accomplished their goals.
When asked how they felt about being living legends Sandy quickly stated, “It feels great knowing that our contributions are worth something of valuable to so many. We are the pioneers and it feels good; look at us 30 years later we are still in the game.” Cheryl thought about it a little and said, “I feel very appreciative, a little overwhelmed but definitely appreciative.”
I asked how they felt about the tour so far and what can their fans expect to see when they come out to them. Both of the ladies perked up and were thrilled to still be so high in demand even without a current record. They spoke about their atoned relationship. Sandi says, “It feels like we are on the same page now and we have learned to communicate about everything.” Cheryl said, “I’m glad we are back together.” They both expressed enthusiasm as they talked about the packed concert halls, the vibe, and love that’s present everywhere they go. They said sometimes it’s hilarious because people come dressed in all the clothing they wore in the 80’s. Cheryl talked about the colored wigs, the big rope chains and how some of their fans show up in Salt N Pepa jackets and tee-shirts. She says, “It’s just a lot of fun.” Although they are both parents now with two children each and Cheryl with a husband to be mindful of; she goes on to say “This time around is more relaxed, less pressure, and every night is like a family reunion.” The lineup is not the same every night but they share the stage with fellow old-school rappers Curtis Blow (“The Breaks”); “Human Beatbox,” Doug E. Fresh (“Just Having Fun”); Big Daddy Kane (“Raw”); MC Lyte (“Ruff Neck”); and Kool Moe Dee (“How Ya Like Me Now”); as well as Houdini (“Friends”), just to name a few. They go on to discuss how they feel this concert is pure irony. Old-school rap was mostly male dominated and now returns to the lime light because of the first female rappers that challenged the game and were commercially successful. Again, they reign as the producers of the tour: Salt N Pepa presents the Legends of Hip Hop Tour. “Now that’s Amazing!” Cheryl says smiling, “All I can say is…look at God.” They mentioned Dee Dee (Spinderella) Roper is not with them on the tour but was a very intricate part of the group in the early days. She also appeared with them on VH-1's Hip Hop Honors in November 2004, where the trio was honored. Salt, Pep and Spin reunited the following year for the next Hip Hop Honors program. It was the trio's first performance in six years, and was their first performance of “Whatta Man” with En Vogue on stage ever. Spin most recently holds her own radio spot on Dallas 94.5 K-SOUL every work day from 9 am to 2 pm.
Cheryl and Sandi are still relishing in the attention and want their fans to know they should expect new music, new television shows and new venues in the future. Sandi states, “Let’s just say you ain’t seen the last or the best of us yet.” One last question, our magazine is a networking magazine for Trendsetters such as yourself so what advice would you have for people out there passionately following their visions and dreams?
Cheryl: “Two things come to mind, 1. You have to believe in yourself, because you will need your belief to draw from when dark times come. 2. Take care of the business. A lot of people leave the business to others but it’s very important that you know what’s going on because there are so many people that end up with zero to show at that end of the day.”
Sandi: “We are trendsetters in music, hairstyles, clothes etc. I would say be yourself but find out what sets you apart from the rest. Stand out, stretch yourself, stay original but don’t be afraid to stand up and be noticed.”
CHRIS 'LUDACRIS' BRIDGES TO WRITE INTRODUCTION TO 13TH EDITION OF WHO'S WHO IN BLACK ATLANTA®
Written by Administrator
Atlanta, Georgia - Who's Who Publishing Company, the nation's largest annual directory publisher focusing on the African-American market, is thrilled to announce Chris 'Ludacris' Bridges, recording artist, actor, philanthropist, entrepreneur and restaurateur, as the introduction writer for the 13th edition of Who's Who In Black Atlanta®.
More than a decade ago, Ludacris released his debut album, Back for the First Time. Since then he has established himself as one of music's best and most successful entertainers, selling more than 12 million albums domestically and releasing timeless hits including "Stand Up," "Get Back," "Number One Spot," "Money Maker" and "How Low." His musical talents have garnered him three Grammy Awards and fans by the millions.
Ludacris brings the same drive and success to the screen as he does to the record studio. His acclaimed film performances include Crash, Hustle & Flow and the recently released #1 movie, No Strings Attached, while also starring on television's top-rated Law & Order: Special Victims Unit. In addition, Ludacris' outstanding work in Crash earned him the prestigious Screen Actors Guild and Critic's Choice awards. Next, he will co-star in the latest installment of The Fast & The Furious film series, Fast Five, scheduled for release in April of 2011.
Ludacris' dedication to his artistic work matches his love of community. In 2001 he founded The Ludacris Foundation (TLF). This nonprofit organization seeks to inspire youth through education and memorable experiences and to uplift families and communities, while fostering economic development. TLF was named one of the Top 20 Leading Philanthropy Foundations by Black Enterprise magazine and featured in The Robb Report's Worth magazine as well as The Chronicles of Philanthropy.
From his work in the studio, on stage, and on the big and small screens, Ludacris' entrepreneurial interests led him to open a restaurant, Straits, in Atlanta, Georgia in 2008. He then launched his own spirit, Conjure Cognac in 2009. Both of these ventures have proven to be very successful and are only the tip of the iceberg as far as his planned enterprises.
About his participation in Who's Who In Black Atlanta®'s 13th edition, Ludacris says, "I am honored and excited to write the introduction. Who's Who is an organization that not only recognizes people for their achievements, but one that connects African-American leaders from all areas and helps to build upon their diverse accomplishments. It is a true privilege to be a part of such an esteemed group and legacy."
Wayne K. Brown, associate publisher of Who's Who In Black Atlanta®, adds, "Along with fame comes responsibility. The entertainment industry has made significant contributions to the Atlanta community. Celebrity entertainer, Chris 'Ludacris' Bridges, has given back to the metropolitan area of Atlanta with numerous contributions through The Ludacris Foundation. I am grateful to have his support as we prepare to release the 13th edition of Who's Who In Black Atlanta®."
A subsidiary of Real Times Media, Who's Who Publishing Company was founded in 1989 and highlights the achievements of African Americans while providing a valuable resource and networking guide for the entire community. Real Times Inc. is dedicated to sustaining its presence as the leading source of African-American-related news, entertainment and lifestyle information.
Cindy Tawiah, was born and raised in Ghana, West Africa
The Daughter of Diplomats, Cindy Tawiah, was born and raised in Ghana, West Africa. Pushed to
pursue a career in medicine by her family, Cindy got her first taste of manufacturing when a chemistry teacher gave her a helping hand for a project. “He said, ‘I’d like to teach you a practical application; I want to show you how to make lipstick and nail polish.’ ” It was then that the beauty seed was planted.
Before that seed could grow Cindy, followed her parents’ wishes and went on to receive a Bachelors degree and career in nursing. Still, something was missing in Cindy’s life. “I was disillusioned, depressed. I prayed for a sign. If someone upsets today, it’s a sign for me to leave, I wanted to leave and open up a hair salon.” That morning as Cindy, went about her duties. She saw that sign, and immediately drafted her resignation letter. But the path to Cindy’s dream wasn’t easy.
With no formal training or experience Cindy, set out to open her first salon. She was turned away from several different banks and multiple rental properties, but she persevered. Cindy, finally found someone who was willing to take a chance on her. In February of 2004, she began reaching out to victims of domestic violence in an effort to renew their sense of self-worth and self-esteem. Partnering with two local shelters, Cindy brought 40 women to her salon, where they received new winter coats (thanks to donations from community), a home-cooked meal and a full day of beauty, complete with facials, hairstyles and manicures.
Cindy felt satisfied with the direction in which her life was headed, but at the end of 2006 she noticed she had quite a turnover rate in her salon. Unsure of what to do, she turned to her friend for advice. “He said, ‘You need to find your purpose’ and I thought “what is he talking about?” My passion is women and beauty. My purpose,” I thought was my passion was beauty products. In February of 2007, Cindy, put together a plan of action. She wanted to create a line that was natural and alcohol free. That’s when the Diva By Cindy, hair-care line was born. “I wanted them to be products of integrity, something I would use and stand by, something that would empower women; Hence the name, ‘Diva.’ ”
Cindy also wanted to use her hair-care line to reach out to domestic violence victims. With the help of grant writers, Cindy created a training and work program to offer women that are affected by domestic violence, the opportunity to be independent distributors for Diva By Cindy. “You don’t want to give them a handout – you want to give them a hand up”, says Cindy. Cindy closed her salon in 2009 and is now focusing on her product line. She will also focus on opening a holistic wellness center, Cindy’s House of Healing; which provides acupuncture, reflexology, massage therapy, aesthetics, aromatherapy and “everything that would help women heal naturally.” The center will also showcase the Diva By Cindy products and will house a new training center for woman interested in becoming independent distributors for the line.
Cindy has also created the Donate to a Diva campaign – which put together beauty and hair-care products for 250 women in nine shelters in Maryland, D.C. and Virginia. The goal is to help the women beautify themselves and increase their self-esteem. Cindy and her team bring women in once a month to experience the benefits of the holistic services that Cindy’s House of Healing offers. It’s a busy life for Cindy, chock-full of challenges and obstacles, but she has some extra hands to keep her sane.
“I have a very supportive husband who fortunately keeps me grounded. He handles most of the online issues, so he’s more of the ‘Chief Technical Officer’; I also have a very valuable assistant – Jill.” Cindy, also credits her life experience as the source of inspiration and strength for what she does. “It’s a full cycle to use what I’ve been given to make a difference in this world. It is a labor of love for me.”
Let me be the one you believe in! Featured

By Carol Courtney Anglin
In 1980 when young Stacy Lattisaw belted out the hit song, “Let Me Be Your Angel”, she had no idea that the lyrics would be prophetic.
Fast forward to today, we have Stacy Lattisaw-Jackson, the Minister and Motivational Speaker, CEO, wife of 19 years and mother of two teenagers. Speaking to Stacy was gratifying because she knows where she’s been, what she has, and where she’s going. Her purpose and passion was clear as she told me “I’m Not the Same Girl” which is the name of her book. “The closer I get to God the more I know what his plan is for me”. Stacy is the CEO of Believer’s Building Bridges; her company published her book and is also the home to her Youth Empowerment Program. Stacy is on a mission to reach children. She holds conferences and youth events, encouraging children to finish school, convincing them that they don’t have to follow the crowd. She challenges them to stand up and be leaders. She also teaches on the principle of integrity and not being afraid to support abstinence. “There are not a lot of role models for our children today, so I try my best to stand in the gap for a lot of them”. Her heart goes out to those that are being bullied “I had a hard time in school. Because I was very light, I was called white girl and yellow girl. I was quiet, shy and somewhat timid, so people took it as being stuck up.” Unfortunately, after she became a child star it got worse. “You know when you reach a certain level of success everyone is not happy for you. And a lot of time the opposition comes from our own people.” Not only did she have to worry about students, but now she had teachers joining in, “I was 15 and grown women would look me up and down and talk about what I had on to each other.
“I would turn in my test papers and they would say they couldn’t find it; anything to harass me.” Eventually Stacy’s parents had enough and decided to home school her. She went on to be a star.
After her crossover, mainstream status with “Love on a Two Way Street”, “Miracles” and “Let Me be your Angel”, Stacy was taken under Narada Michael Walden’s wings producing five hit albums that led to her signing with Motown in 1986.
It was at this time that Stacy begun to see things that disheartened her. “I realized that I was deep within an industry that had a lot of crooked people in it.” “My daughter Kayla wants to get into the industry, she sings and writes songs. But I will not push her out there; in fact, I encourage her to wait until she gets a little older. I want her to enjoy her childhood and prepare for the industry life.” Stacy said, “I had an enjoyable experience being a child star but it’s a lot if you are not prepared.”
I understand a lot of what Michael Jackson went through as a child star. “I was fortunate to open up for the Jackson Family tour which was a huge opportunity for me. I actually got a chance to talk with Michael, a time that I will cherish as long as I live.” She reflected on the childhood she never had. “I didn’t know how much I missed growing up until one day when I took my son Kevin to one of his games. I was sitting in the car just watching them have teenage fun and my mind took me back. I realized that I never went to any school dances, or proms, and never attended any school games. I was crushed and cried right there in the car.”
Traveling on the road can be a lot and when you’re 15 it can be gruesome. There were sad moments when, “I was forced to leave my family and fly 20 hours away to an event in Africa. I was tired and I didn’t want to go. I sat and cried because I was exhausted but I still had to go.” And then there were funny memories “like the time I was on stage, and I forgot the words to the second verse. I had to play it off and make up words.” “Now this was one of my hit songs so everyone in the audience was singing the right words and I was singing the wrong ones.”
“I guess everybody was saying what is that she’s singing,” as she laughed. At this point, they had Stacy on the road at least 4 nights out of a week. “We had fun but we were tired a lot.”
It wasn’t until she recorded, “Where Do We Go From Here”, with Johnny Gill that she realized she was not ready to be in the music business. Although her mother traveled with her on the road, they all had very limited knowledge of the industry. “We were being robbed. This was a hit record on billboard for several weeks at #1, and we were told that we only sold 30 or 40,000 records. We both knew that could not be true. Johnny was going to have the company audited, but I knew it was just time for me to leave the industry. I told them to go ahead and keep my part of the money.”
Stacy eventually left the industry after marrying a consistent sound engineer by the name of Kevin Jackson who was determined to be in her life forever. “My husband was my sound tech at the time, and our first date was at Pizza Hut,” she laughs, “He took off from his business and we dated for 11 days straight. Six months later we were engaged, six months after that we were married.” She talks about their relationship, “divorce with us is not an option. There is no perfect marriage, and we have had our share of arguments but we are God fearing and respectful to each other. The secret to a successful marriage is two forgiving people.” Seventeen years later they have a thriving business and he is particularly supportive of her ministry. She is currently in the studio working on her Gospel Project and will be announcing the launch of new music in the future. “This time I am prepared. “ Stacy encourages everyone to “learn the business you want to be in, tap into your gifts and talents, find out what you are good at, and don’t give up. Some people give up right before the break through comes. Get to know who God is and you will get to know your purpose.”
“Stacy, what do you want people to leave knowing about you?”
“I want them to know the real me. I didn’t get a chance to show that on some programs, like the piece on ‘Unsung Hero’. And that’s one of the reasons why I wrote my book. I want people to know that I am not the same girl, I have been renewed!”
Roger Louis Kennedy
Roger Louis Kennedy, knows that associating with individuals who truly understand your gift will allow you to take a good look at yourself and your creative aspect of life. He is the President of My Spouse Made Me Rich, Inc. “I am the proud parent of two wonderful kids. My daughter Amber Kennedy, is 21 and my son Kaylon Kennedy, is 16. I grew up with two wonderful parents Joe and Phyllis Kennedy who have been married for 48 years.” Born and raised in a Chicago suburb called Harvey, Kennedy have always loved working with people and after high school, began his career as a salesman. “Being a salesman was a perfect fit for my personality and my spirit to do things my way. I have always been a creative person with a lot of energy and passion for wanting to create avenues of opportunity for myself.”
Kennedy, started writing books after being separated from his wife – the title of his book was Inspired in a Dream. “I didn't realize what the title of my book meant until I began writing it and looked at the things I had done in the relationship. It caused me to really examine myself inside and out in so many ways. I am proud of my journey with my book because it has inspired many and the title alone has gotten noticed around the world by celebrities, music moguls, athletes and many more successful Individuals.” “I am also proud to say that my book is endorsed by Rhonda McMillian M.D., I have taken my book journey up from ground level since 2008 and the journey has been filled with love, haters and very powerful individuals who have stood behind me throughout my journey. I am proud to say that my book can be ordered through all of the major bookstores online.”
“My personal adversity of a failed marriage has driven and pushed me to a higher level of creativity. I tell everyone that at some point and time in your life, you have to take a good look at who you are and what you contributed to the demise of the relationship or marriage. It's not easy to look in the mirror at yourself but it's not how you start its how you finish. I have done some T.V interviews and a couple of radio interviews along with having some write ups in a few magazines – my whole purpose is to inspire individuals to be more accountable in their personal lives, relationships and/or marriage. I have continued to grow in so many ways and I also continue to struggle in many ways with the mistakes I have made in the past.”
By Ava Simone Collier
Carmalitha L. Gumbs is the Marketing Support Sales Specialist for Humana MarketPOINT, an agency of Humana, Inc. in Atlanta, GA. MarketPOINT is a distribution channel of Humana which offers services directly from business to the consumer. In her current role, she is responsible for all the local marketing efforts to support the sales team. Carmalitha explained that it is Humana’s objective to build relationships within the community “It takes a lot of networking and business development to do this. We want people in the community to identify and recognize us so they can understand what we do,” says Carmalitha.
Although Humana is well known as a healthcare insurance company, Carmalitha explained that Humana is now refocused on community outreach. Humana has always been synonymous with private health insurance often offered through commercial businesses, large and small. She explained that the company started off with nursing homes and eventually got into the insurance arena. “Our business motto is changing. We definitely focus on health insurance but are now moving to financial products.” She explained that Humana is still focused on health but now offers other products to help give the community a comprehensive portfolio. “We want to bring the message to the community that we can also help with everyday needs in life, such as financial planning in the event of an illness involving yourself or a loved one or if you have lost your job and have no coverage. We can help you prepare for the future.”
Humana’s new focus can also be beneficial for parents who may not have or even thought about health and life insurance for their children. “We provide guidance, not pressure selling. We want to let people know what resources are available to them,” says Carmalitha. Humana is becoming very visible at community events and also offer home consultations. Although Humana is still in the business of offering commercial insurance to small businesses in the community, individuals can also purchase private health insurance called HumanaOne. They offer competitive rates to people 65 and under. “We used to be very focused on Medicare where we did a lot of business with seniors in the market. With the new healthcare reform we have to change our strategy. We also focus on overall products that will enhance their lives such as life insurance for adults and children, dental and vision plans and annuities. Before, we only focused on healthcare and these other services were not previously available as much.”
Carmalitha says that although she loves her job and all that it entails, there are still challenges regarding ever changing governmental Medicare guidelines and healthcare reforms. Although up for the challenge, she states that Humana looks forward to getting specific guideline directives in the future to better serve the community. “I think that would make life easier; Things change daily. The reality is that it’s not that way now so we do the best we can. Our whole goal is to bring the message out to the community and let them know we are here and to see everyone covered with health insurance.”
To find out more about Humana and their services, visit http://www.humana.com
FORPLAI BY LAMMAN RUCKER NATURAL BATH AND BODY CARE LINE LAUNCHES WITH NEW WEBSITE
Written by AdministratorBy Ava Collier
TV and film star Lamman Rucker and Koffee and Kompany of Dallas, Texas, have announced the official launch of forplai, the actor’s signature bath and body care line for women, men and couples. The new line features four alluring scents personally selected by Lamman Rucker as a soft yet subtle introduction to intimacy while encouraging a meaningful and daily connection between the mind, body and spirit. Forplai is now available for purchase exclusively on its new website at www.forplai.com.
Forplai is the culmination of a two year journey by Co-Owners and Co-Creators Lamman Rucker and Thai Morrison, Founder of Koffee and Kompany, after they discovered their mutual interest in natural approaches to health and wellness. The result is an innovative paraben-free, color-free, and vegan friendly product line that reflects every facet of Rucker’s sexy, stylish and sophisticated persona.
Each distinct scent will feature a body butter, body scrub and body mist. Created with exquisite blends of quality ingredients such as avocado oil, walnut shells, mango butter, watermelon seed oil combined with delicate hints of chocolate, caramel, floral and more, forplai products are designed to exfoliate, moisturize and condition the skin. Morrison states, “What makes forplai and other Koffee and Kompany treats so appealing are the exceptional elements and edible-smelling scents that make you desirable.”
The first products to be released from the line are Passion and Purity with the remaining two scents of Peace and Power to debut in 2011. The names of each scent are attention-grabbing affirmations also chosen by Rucker to remind us, with each application, of our inner power, beauty and strength. "I wanted to create a line for women and men alike that would encourage them to embrace the harmony and divine balance of sensuality and spirituality within all of us,” said Rucker. “Forplai is an opportunity to not only smell good and feel good, but to also take time to connect with the heavens above and the God in you.”
The brand will expand its presence in the marketplace with an assortment of unisex indulgences that provide a chic and vibrant day spa experience in the comfort and privacy of your home.
Bath and body care fanatics may purchase single items on the new website or a complete Ritual bundle containing all three products that work in tandem for optimal results and the ultimate body care experience. Holiday shoppers will find great gift ideas, too. All products are 4 ounces in size and priced competitively at $22 for body butters, $20 for body mists and $15 for body scrubs. Fans were treated to a special sneak preview of forplai at a series of exclusive shopping events hosted by Rucker during the 2010 NBA All-Star Weekend in Dallas this past February and the response was overwhelming. And, in keeping with Mr. Rucker’s passion and commitment to ‘green living’ and decreasing the impact on the environment, forplai packaging is recyclable and designed with classic simplicity.
For further information about forplai by Lamman Rucker or to request an interview, please contact Sabrina Russ at Sabrina@forplai.com or (772) 226-0794. Also visit our website at www.forplai.com and follow us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/forplai.
“First and foremost, baby, I am a stand up comic!” declares Mo’Nique. It was like talking with a girlfriend over a cup of coffee or lunch. Mo’Nique just has a way of making you feel comfortable and relaxed. There were no signs of a diva, although she’s has certainly earned the right to be one if she chose. Instead, this is a woman who, despite her many successes and accomplishments, remains uniquely REAL. We talked about her Academy Award winning performance in Precious. Mo’Nique portrayed the highly dysfunctional, abusive mother of Clarice “Precious” Jones, played by newcomer Gabourey Sidibe. This role was a dramatic departure from Mo’Nique’s more familiar comedic roles. When I asked her what went into preparation as Mary Jones, she explained. “In reading the book and then the script, I was very excited about that role and the message. The moment we knew what it was, we knew that it was going to change lives. When director Lee Daniel’s would say ‘Action’, we knew we couldn’t sugar coat Mary Jones. She’s very real.” Mo’Nique spoke about her personal painful experience of being molested by her brother. “Coming from being molested by my oldest brother, I knew who that ‘monster’ was. It was that ‘monster’ coming to life. We knew people would look on that screen and see themselves.”
This Academy Award, Golden Globe and NAACP Image Award winning actress is a no-nonsense, keep-it-real sista’. She doesn’t seek the approval or accolades that often come with such accomplishments. She is also the host of The Mo’Nique Show, a nightly talk show on BET. Although Mo’Nique’s physical appearance has changed by her successful weight loss, her vivacious, confident and effervescent personality has not. “I don’t know who else to be. It would be too much energy to be someone different. When I look in the mirror I don’t want to be confused at who’s looking back at me. I don’t want to say ‘Who are you?’ ” We talked about the universal message in Precious and how it relates to everyone. Mo’Nique feels that this was only a story about one woman and her family. However, she states that abuse is pervasive and has no color or gender. “You can go to any point on the face of this earth where human beings are and this goes on. It almost makes you say ‘wow are we still caught up in that?’ We get caught up in two black women who live in the projects that are on food stamps. Well you know what? There ARE black women who live in the projects on food stamps who treat their children poorly. There are also white women with millions of dollars living in the midst of Beverly Hills who treat their children poorly.” Mo’Nique further explained that abuse is abuse regardless. “Watching this movie, you could relate to either Mary or Precious. If not yourself, then you know someone who was. We aren’t that far removed from that.”
At the Academy Awards, Mo’Nique wore a beautiful blue gown with a gardenia in her hair. She stated that it was in honor of Hattie McDaniel, who played “Mammy” in Gone with the Wind in 1939. She was the first African American to ever win an Academy Award. At the awards that year, Ms. McDaniel wore a blue dress with a gardenia in her hair. I asked Mo’Nique what she thought about the controversy that African Americans have won awards for portraying negative, stereotypical roles, such as Denzel Washington in Training Day, Halle Berry in Monster’s Ball and even Hattie McDaniel for playing a slave. Mo’Nique stated, “For people who say ‘Oh my goodness! You won this award for playing a project mother,’ I say do your research. Most times when we win those awards it’s because you’ve played the “grit” - the opposite of whom you really are. I wish the day would come when we don’t get so caught up in those things. At what point do we just say, ‘Wow! We got the trophy!’ ”
Mo’Nique is speaking about how she remains remarkably humble and unphased by her notoriety. “If we become selfish and think that it’s just about you in the moment, I feel sad for you. It’s so not about me. I think the universe says I’m glad you got it.” Mo’Nique credits her husband, Sidney Hicks, with helping her to stay grounded. “I have an amazing husband who is my best friend. He will tell me what I really need to hear, not what I want to hear. I don’t want to disappoint my family, my husband, my children or grandchildren that I have not met yet. When they write the story a hundred years from now, I think about that. I don’t want anyone to say that she was a diva, rude or inconsiderate. I don’t want those words being used behind my name. I do have my moments, baby! I have those moments in that closet by myself! God has to take me to my knees sometimes! God will say ‘Let me introduce you to me again!’ I don’t know why I’m funny or why I was able to pull that role off. It’s not a special formula. There’s nothing about me that’s special. I’m appreciative that the universe says that we’re going to use her to do this. I’m going to do all I can to make sure that I am in good graces.”
In case there has been any doubt about Mo’Nique’s authenticity in her desire to never forget where she came from and who was there on her way up, it was evident during the post Academy Awards press conference. Mo’Nique, looking radiant while holding her well deserved Oscar, stood in front of the camera while hundreds of reporters asked questions. The viewing audience could not see the reporters, only Mo’Nique’s smiling face. The television audience could hear a voice calling out numbers indicating the order in which the reporters had the chance to ask Mo’Nique a question. Shortly into the question and answer session, Mo’Nique’s happy expression changed and was replaced by a look of dissatisfaction. She then boldly, and without hesitation, interjected and redirected the order of the reporters and their questions. I remember watching how she took charge and was so proud of her. I asked her what was going on that the viewing audience couldn’t see. “In that press room there were about 300 reporters. Only five of them were black that I could see. None of them (black press) had been called on to ask any questions. I said wait a minute, baby! How could I not talk to them when they’ve been talking to me all along! Now all of a sudden I’m gonna ignore them? No, I don’t play like that. They’ve been good to me my entire career. Now I come here and now they can’t ask me any questions? No way. I think the universe would slap me in the mouth if I acted as though I didn’t see that!”
Mo’Nique says that she has often been asked about now being “mainstream.” She says, “I ask them what does that mean? Which stream am I in right now? The stream I’m in right now is my mainstream because it’s the stream I visit frequently. If you want to come over and play in my stream, baby, you’re welcome to come.” When I asked her about the energy that she brings to The Mo’Nique Show, she stated, “When that elevator door opens up, y’all are looking at a little girl because I always dreamed of being what I am right now. We can actually play and love up on each other and do this every night? I am surprised every night by the sheer beauty of what the universe has given me. In the beginning they said I was too loud and I tried to calm it down. Then me and God had a conversation. He said I made you who you are. I get to scream and holla and it’s okay. This is the way that you get rewarded if you stay obedient. The Mo’Nique Show hasn’t been on a year and we’ve already won an award. This show is nothing but love and we won’t waiver. People say you gotta throw some dirt in there, but listen, baby, we ain’t showing nothin’ but love! When you’re obedient, the universe has a way of saying ‘We got you covered, baby!’ ” When asked what’s next, she simply said “If I just get tomorrow, baby, because I ain’t greedy. I don’t know what’s up next year because tomorrow might be gone for me. If I enjoy it today, then I won’t be mad at God if He brings me home tomorrow. I can’t say, ‘God, I told you in five years I wanted to do something with Don Cheadle. God, you trippin’!”






